When is love not enough

I'm not saying that you want to claim that every problem in your loving relationships is your responsibility. There's no specific right or wrong in a love, however, when comes to loving relationships men should be "men" to take more responsibility.

However, sometimes the problem may not be able to solve. For example, you don't like she always talks at someone back but she can't change it because she used to talk at someone back since younger years. It's a part of her personality traits. Imagine that, if you marry this woman, you need to bear this behavior for your whole life. Okay, you may think that if she loves you, she would change it for you. Sometimes this can happen, mostly cannot.

She would bounce back after several months or so, and she won't feel comfortable because she's compromising herself. Love is very powerful, it can change a person, but it doesn't necessarily solve your love problem. In addition, remember you should never and ever settle for less than standard women. When a woman fits one of your attraction criteria, you are attracted to her. When you are putting efforts or invest into your loving relationships, you will magnify the attraction you have for her.

In other words, the more you invest into the relationships, the more you will feel she's the one. This woman may not up to your standard, however, because you start to invest in the relationship, you feel you can't lose her and hope she will change someday. Guys, please don't idealize your love relationship, please don't idealize your woman. Nothing is perfect included love. If you found that she's less than standard, then let her go. Be honest to yourself, and be honest to her too. To make the love works, sometimes you both need to sacrifice yourself inevitably.

However, love is not always worth sacrificing yourself. The kind of sacrifice such as accompany her to eat spicy thing surely is not a big deal. The kind of sacrifice here means sacrifice yourself and even your identity for the sake of your relationships. Do you respect yourself?

If you do, do you want your girlfriend respects you? Many guys allow their girlfriend disrespect them, conscious or unconsciously. If you allow her to behave badly to you, chances are you'll lose her respect and surely this makes the attraction fades out.

If you accept second class behavior such as allow her to treat you like her little brother, you're allowing her to ruin your loving relationship in the long run. There are somethings you should never and ever to sacrifice for the sake of your relationship such as self-respect, dignity, ambitions and life purpose.

For having a healthy loving relationship, both partner has to respect each other. Therefore, if you want her to respect you, your reaction to her bad behavior is what makes the difference.

You can take it as a joke, ignore it or stop it. The ideal way is always stop it by telling her you don't like her behavior. By telling her you could imply her that she doesn't have the right to disrespect you. Women tend to behave disrespectfully to test men's reaction. You want to stop her bad behavior by letting her know your personal boundaries. You educate her what you like and dislikes.

In my free ebook Attract Women With Personal Boundaries I explained that when a person without boundaries he or she can't see the limitation for doing something. If you don't let her know what you dislike and stop letting her to disrespect you, she can't see the limitation and will continue to disrepect you. And you will unconsciously let her to disrespect you because you can't see the limitation. Love is blind. That's why you will sacrifice a lot for the sake of loving relationships.

But the limit is you should never betray your boundaries. They take time, patience and two people who truly want to be together. Love needs communication For having a healthy loving relationship based on honesty and empathy, communication is inevitable. Many guys don't know how to communicate their needs to their girlfriend.

Typical guy assumes his girlfriend will understand him without needing to say anything because she loves him. He thinks his girlfriend should be able to catch the changes within him and give relevant response to him. This is weird, isn't it? Is your girlfriend a psychologist?

Is your girlfriend a love coach? Why would you believe your girlfriend should intuitively know what you need without you having to say anything? For better understanding of each other, you should make better communication. First of all, you have to understand that you have a right to ask for the things you need. Got it. Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely.

SAFE Learn more about digital security and remember to clear your browser history after visiting this website. Love seems to be everywhere. At this point, it seems a bit redundant to blame Disney movies for setting this lofty expectation. But, is love enough to keep a relationship going if the other important aspects of a healthy partnership aren't there? Anyone who's ever broken up with someone they still loved would probably say no.

According to Dr. Joshua Klapow , Ph. The end result for some couples is that they realize they love each other but aren't in love with each other. You may start to feel like you have to censor yourself to avoid disagreements — and like you're not really heard when you do express yourself.

Unfortunately, happiness is not always contagious.